Too many thoughts running through one's head at one moment.
Funny how I was just commenting on being different and how proudly i acclaim that I like being different and I am so different myself. What i did not realise was that I was saying that because I was the odd ball out and I am the crazy one. This is a whole new different story when you are dealing with a different someone else. Its bring
differences to a different level.
I went shopping with someone who has a very unique and different personality. He has a personality that most girls will either find very charming and also it is not difficult to see how girls will stand in line and fall for him OR just hate him. According to 3 girlfriends I asked, they would not stand for his behaviour, surprisingly, I was fine with it. The thought of accepting different personality did come across my mind and maybe perhaps.. it was that very thought that changed my attitude.
In Another MomentI spoke to Kelly on the phone on my way back the other day, and she mentioned to me how she can finally understand how some girls think. All my life, I have despiced girls who are materialistic, throw themselves at sugar daddy's who can buy them their branded prada. When I see one on the street, I usually have nasty looks for them ! ( hahaha, maybe one will realise her worth and change her ways ! ) I do not have respect for them and often reinforce the idea of being independent and standing on my own two feet.
When Kelly called and told me her point of view, I finally understood how it might be difficult for girls to say no. A young girl will have to work HOURS before she can afford a branded bag and maybe it will be difficult to say no at that very moment when someone pampers you with gifts so easily...
My opinions about such girls have not changed and i personally know one or two of them, I hate their actions but personally, they are still very nice people inside.
These are very valuable lessons to draw from, and I have had very illuminating conversations with a couple of people I know, and these conversations were made to last ....
Some crazy song is playing through my mind, over and over again.. i dont even know the title. just the tune..
P.S : Singapore brought home anoth gold medal form the Asian Games at Doha. The 3rd gold came from our body-builders. 1 from Swimming, 1 from Bowling and another from Body-Building... hmm... a nation of many talents ! hee hee... I think the sailing team is going to bring in another 3 or 4 ?
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