Growing up is not easy
Making decisions are not easy either.
The last two days, I made a few decisions, some hard, some not so hard.
Its a lot of thinking for me.
I know I am making some really difficult decisions and I now understand the importance of values in oneself. Its my values that hold me together and my values that help me make my decisions. I was lucky to have my best friend to listen to and support me in my decision ! THANK YOU SO MUCH SAI ! thanks for listening to me cry and b_tch and stuff.
I left a 'Little Something to Think About' Section on the right side of my Blog.
Life is not about knowing the difference between the right and the wrong. We all know what is right and what is wrong. While the world is getting more complicated each day, life is knowing the difference between right and right decisions.
Think Growth, are two words that I have set in my mind from a few years ago. I want to grow my knowledge, grow mentally and emotionally as a person. I dont know if can handle spiritual growth as yet but one day I will. I finally spend some time putting the picture together today. I spent a few months debating on what pictures define growth for me. Today I found it.
Growing up is about making decision for oneself. The ability and the responsibility. Making decisions have always and will always be a simple one, yes or no, left or right, correct or wrong. What makes it hard is when emotions come into play and when other people come into the picture. Making decisions is simple when all you think of is yourself! A selfish way of looking at a problem. Its when you know that you might hurt someone, or make someone sad, or go against a person's wishes that makes it hard. Its the battle between your head and your heart.
Fortunately, the few decisions that I have to make in the last couple of weeks are fairly easy.
SN Review Board : Change lives ! why not ? Make a difference ! Approve ALL SNs ( they were awesome ! )
Let go of something I really like : That is fine coz someone else really appreciates it
MacDonalds : Its not that good for my health anyways, I walked by it
Esprit Sweater : I am saving $79 instead, hard to walk away but I did !
Assignment or Party ? : Er.. party then home to assignment at 1am !
it 0242HR. I am still up ? Why, coz I made a choice to play RISK on my computer for an hour and a half instead of working on my term paper. Well... what do you think ?
The last two days, I made a few decisions, some hard, some not so hard.
Its a lot of thinking for me.
I know I am making some really difficult decisions and I now understand the importance of values in oneself. Its my values that hold me together and my values that help me make my decisions. I was lucky to have my best friend to listen to and support me in my decision ! THANK YOU SO MUCH SAI ! thanks for listening to me cry and b_tch and stuff.
I left a 'Little Something to Think About' Section on the right side of my Blog.
Life is not about knowing the difference between the right and the wrong. We all know what is right and what is wrong. While the world is getting more complicated each day, life is knowing the difference between right and right decisions.
Think Growth, are two words that I have set in my mind from a few years ago. I want to grow my knowledge, grow mentally and emotionally as a person. I dont know if can handle spiritual growth as yet but one day I will. I finally spend some time putting the picture together today. I spent a few months debating on what pictures define growth for me. Today I found it.
Growing up is about making decision for oneself. The ability and the responsibility. Making decisions have always and will always be a simple one, yes or no, left or right, correct or wrong. What makes it hard is when emotions come into play and when other people come into the picture. Making decisions is simple when all you think of is yourself! A selfish way of looking at a problem. Its when you know that you might hurt someone, or make someone sad, or go against a person's wishes that makes it hard. Its the battle between your head and your heart.
Fortunately, the few decisions that I have to make in the last couple of weeks are fairly easy.
SN Review Board : Change lives ! why not ? Make a difference ! Approve ALL SNs ( they were awesome ! )
Let go of something I really like : That is fine coz someone else really appreciates it
MacDonalds : Its not that good for my health anyways, I walked by it
Esprit Sweater : I am saving $79 instead, hard to walk away but I did !
Assignment or Party ? : Er.. party then home to assignment at 1am !
it 0242HR. I am still up ? Why, coz I made a choice to play RISK on my computer for an hour and a half instead of working on my term paper. Well... what do you think ?
posted by Celine at
6:14 PM
2 Comments:
honestly not the thing i'm dying to read right now coz I myself am having trouble with making decisions. It's true what you say about being selfish, taking the easy way out by deciding only about yourself when others are involved.
All said and done, stay alive. Remember what I said? I f**king hate O*********S!!!!!
I guess in the end most of us have to make these decisions sooner or later. The good thing - I guess is - that we have the possibility to make decisions. Some dont. So in the end we should look at the sunny side of life and be happy that have what we have, and I believe that somehow we end up where we are meant to end up...some take the winding road, some go straight...guess which one I am taking lol ;)
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